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Breathwork for the moment the anxiety hits

He's read it.
He hasn't replied.
Here's what to do right now.

7 guided breathwork practices for the anxiety waves that hit in close relationships — after a message, a silence, a spiral, or the urge to reach out.

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Andrum SOS Practices are 7 guided breathwork audios for the moments when anxious attachment takes over — after a message, a silence, a spiral, jealousy, shame, freeze, anger, or the urge to reach out.

7 guided audio practices 6–8 minutes each Choose by emotional state Instant access after purchase
Right now

Is this you right now?

Sent it. No reply. Refreshing anyway.
He's active. Still nothing.
One fight. Now: silence.
The text is written. Pause before you send it.
Jealousy with no off switch.
Body in panic. Mind overwhelmed.
2am. Same thought. Again.
Froze. Can't feel anything.
Why am I like this?

Nothing to figure out.
Just press play.

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Feel what changes in your body before you decide.

Not sure yet? Hear what it sounds like.

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Practice 1 — After a Triggering Message
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A warm voice. Unhurried. Like someone who's been exactly where you are right now. That's what guides you through every practice.

7 minutes

Here's what you
may notice.

Something in your breathing may start to slow. A place in your chest — tight until now — might begin to loosen. You may notice your jaw unclenching. You didn't realise it was clenched.

The thought spiral may pause. Not because anything is solved. Because your body has somewhere else to go. You may find just enough space not to act from panic.

This won't change what's happening between you. It will get you through the next 10 minutes steady — with your head clear enough to choose what you do next.

Why breathing actually works
when nothing else does.

When anxiety hits this hard, the part of you that reasons and problem-solves goes quiet. That's not weakness. That's biology. The way back isn't through your thoughts. It's through your body. And breath is the most direct path — a longer exhale than inhale sends a signal your body already knows how to receive: the danger is passing. You can come down now.

"Breathing doesn't work for me."

That makes sense. Most breathing advice isn't built for this — it's built for mild stress, not for the moments when your whole system has already decided something is very wrong. These practices are different: a voice guides you through every second so you never have to figure anything out. You just follow. The voice holds the rhythm with you.

Seven practices

Seven moments.
One for tonight.

Practice 01
When Anxiety Hits After a Message or Conversation

A message takes longer than usual. The tone feels different. They go quiet, and suddenly your body is acting like the whole connection is disappearing. This practice is for the chest-tight, stomach-drop moment when you need to come back to safety before your mind builds the whole story.

Practice 02
When Thoughts Are Racing and Won't Stop

Your brain keeps replaying the conversation like there is one detail that will finally explain everything. You check the timing, the wording, the energy, the tiny shift that maybe meant nothing but now feels huge. This practice gives the mind something steady to follow, so the spiral has less room to run the whole night.

Practice 03
When I Feel Small, Wrong, or Not Enough

Sometimes the spiral turns inward. It stops being "what did they mean?" and becomes "what is wrong with me?" This practice is for the moment you feel too much, not enough, or like your needs made you impossible to love. It helps soften the collapse and bring you back to the part of you that is still worthy, even here.

Practice 04
When Jealousy Rises and You're Scared of Losing Them

Jealousy can feel like panic wearing a different face. Someone else gets their attention, something feels uncertain, and your body starts scanning for proof that you are being replaced. This practice helps lower the emergency signal, so you can meet the fear without letting it decide what you do next.

Practice 05
When You're Desperate to Reach Out - Let's Walk

You want to text. Or call. Or explain everything perfectly so the anxiety finally stops. The urge feels physical, like your body needs to do something right now. This walking practice helps move that activation through, so the message you send, if you send one, comes from a steadier place.

Practice 06
When I Freeze and Feel Nothing

Not every trigger looks like panic. Sometimes everything goes flat, quiet, far away. You know something happened, but your body feels like it left the room. This practice is for coming back slowly, without forcing yourself to feel more than you can.

Practice 07
When Anger Rises and You Want to Tell Everyone Off

Sometimes the anxiety turns hot. The message is drafted, the sharp reply is ready, and part of you wants to say the thing that will feel good for ten seconds and messy for much longer. This practice gives the heat somewhere to go before it comes out through your words. It helps you return to enough ground to choose what actually needs to be said.

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Freeze and panic
aren't the same state.

Your body needs a different signal for each one. That's why one practice isn't enough.

Panic after a messageSharp, fast interrupt to stop the spiral
Racing thoughts / loopRhythm to anchor the mind
Shame / collapseSlow, rhythmic breath, gentle activation
Jealousy / threatExtended exhale, gradual release
Urge to text / adrenalineMovement + breath to burn the charge
Freeze / numbnessSlow 3-part breath, zero force
AngerRelease valve first, then downshift

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What's inside

Here's what happens
when you press the button.

You press the button. One email arrives. One link. You see 7 practices, each named for the state you're in right now. You press play. A calm voice starts — warm, unhurried, like someone who's been exactly where you are. You follow it. Nothing else is required.

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7 guided breathwork practices (6–8 min each) Each labeled by state — you know exactly which one to press
Lifetime access — yours to keep Not a subscription. You buy it once. It's there every time a hard time comes — and it will.
No app to download No playlist to navigate. One list, one button.

Who made this and why.

We've been exactly where you are. Not as practitioners observing from the outside — as the person refreshing the screen at midnight. As the one who went numb mid-conversation and couldn't explain why. As the one who stayed in something that was hurting her because leaving felt like losing herself.

Between the three of us, we've lived anxious attachment through relationships that ranged from painful to genuinely unsafe. We know what it's like when your body won't come down. When the spiral has already started and there's nothing to hold onto.

That's why we built this. Not from a framework. From the floor.

These practices are what we needed and couldn't find — something that meets you in the actual moment, with a voice that guides you through it step by step. No figuring out. No getting it wrong. Just follow.

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Ksu certified breathwork facilitator
Bec certified breathwork facilitator
Masha co-founder
Real women

What happened
when they pressed play.

"I almost threw my phone across the room. I put on practice one instead. By like minute four my hands actually stopped shaking. He still hadn't replied. I still didn't know anything. But I could breathe without it hurting. That's not nothing."

Jess, 29

"I was in the parking lot of a CVS at 11pm with my car running, drafting a message I'd been rewriting for an hour. I did the 'urge to text' practice sitting there. I didn't send it. I went home. Still don't know if that was the right call but at least it was MY call and not my panic's."

Maya, 31

"After practice 3 my jaw unclenched and I realized I'd been clenching it for days. I didn't even know. It's been doing that this whole time."

Rachel, 27

"The intro to practice two mentions 'replaying it like maybe you'll find a different ending.' I actually started crying. Not because I was sad but because someone named the exact thing I was doing and didn't make me feel insane for it."

Tara, 33

"I did the first practice free and genuinely felt something shift so I bought the full pack like three minutes later. I need the jealousy one. I need the freeze one. There have been nights I can't even cry, I just go blank. I need something for that too."

Lauren, 29

"$19 for actually different tools is insane. I've spent more than that on one hour of talking about my feelings."

Mia, 35

Before you buy.

Is this therapy?

No. Andrum is not a substitute for therapy or mental health care. It is a body-based support tool for emotional regulation in the moment.

How long are the practices?

Each practice is 6–8 minutes.

Do I need experience with breathwork?

No. The practices are guided step by step.

When should I use them?

Use them when you feel activated, spiralling, frozen, jealous, ashamed, angry, or pulled to reach out from panic.

What happens after I buy?

You receive instant access to the full SOS Practices collection and the guide.

You do not have to decide
everything right now.

Start with one practice. Press play when the wave hits, and feel what changes in your body.

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